Planning The Holidays Around An Alzheimer’s Family Member!

by Kathy Sykes on December 12, 2012 · 2 comments

I read the most amazing and well written article about how to make the holidays comfortable for families with parents or loved ones that have dementia/Alzheimer’s Disease.

Here are the highlights:

  1. Familiarize others with the situation

If the person is in the early stages of Alzheimer’s, relatives and friends might not notice any changes. But the person with dementia may have trouble following conversation or tend to repeat him- or herself. Family can help with communication by being patient, not interrupting or correcting, and giving the person time to finish his or her thoughts.

If the person is in the middle or late stages of Alzheimer’s, there may be significant changes in cognitive abilities since the last time an out-of-town friend or relative has visited. These changes can be hard to accept. Make sure visitors understand that changes in behavior and memory are caused by the disease and not the person.

2. Adjust expectations
  • Call a meeting to discuss upcoming plans.
    The stress of caregiving responsibilities layered with holiday traditions can take a toll. Invite family and friends to a face-to-face meeting, or if geography is an obstacle, set up a telephone conference call. Make sure everyone understands your caregiving situation and has realistic expectations about what you can do. Be honest about any limitations or needs, such as keeping a daily routine.
3. Involve the person with dementia
  • Involve the person in holiday preparation.
    As the person’s abilities allow, invite him or her to help you prepare food, wrap packages, help decorate or set the table. This could be as simple as having the person measure an ingredient or hand decorations to you as you put them up. (Be careful with decoration choices. Blinking lights may confuse or scare a person with dementia, and decorations that look like food could be mistaken as edible.)
4. Adapt gift giving
  • Encourage safe and useful gifts for the person with dementia.
    Diminishing capacity may make some gifts unusable or even dangerous to a person with dementia. If someone asks for gift ideas, suggest items the person with dementia needs or can easily enjoy. Ideas include: an identification bracelet (available through MedicAlert®+ Alzheimer’s Association Safe Return®), comfortable clothing, audiotapes of favorite music, videos and photo albums.
5.  When the person lives in a care facility
  • Consider joining your loved one in any facility-planned holiday activities
  • Bring a favorite holiday food to share
  • Sing holiday songs and ask if other residents can join in
  • Read a favorite holiday story or poem out loud

Read the full article Holidays and Alzheimer’s Families to get the most out of your holiday season with loved ones.


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Linda Kirk December 12, 2012 at 7:44 am

Looking forward to the holiday festivities with Dad, Santa and the other Residents at Life Care of Hixson


Kathy Sykes December 12, 2012 at 10:23 am

Should be fun as always


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